The Gift of Kink

The kink community’s gift to culture lay in its preservation of sex or sexuality for its own sake instead of using it as a means to some other goal. *Herbert Marcuse, Eros and Civilization “Against a society which employs sexuality as a means for a useful end, the perversions uphold sexuality as an end in itself.” Pleasure for its own sake becomes a part of a life well lived. Pleasure and or experience is valuable even if it leads to nothing beyond that event itself…. Read More

Retired Women Being Sexual

Sexual women in a retirement community

A true story of sexual women in one retirement community and a sex positive reflection on the reality of desire. Our instinctive joys belong to life not to expectations and certainly not traditions. Excerpt from: The Paradox of Self Realization Read More