The Eros of Psyche

The eros of the psyche does NOT limit its power to assumed roles of dominant and submissive. It moves within an individual and also moves from one living being to another. It’s so vulnerable, it will be tempting to stop because unlike the physical body, the psyche has no physical limits. That’s how out of control it feels.
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Unreasonable Respect For Old Relationship Beliefs

Why would I say there is unreasonable respect for old relationship beliefs?

At a party, a woman lamented that she had to divide all her assets twice in two divorces. She said the next time she gets married, the man will have more stuff than her. When three people asked why she would get married again, she replied in a circular way, “I’m just the marrying type.” And the conversation ended since there seemed no point. If someone answered the question, why do you … Read More

Foolish men blocking abortion

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Why are foolish men blocking abortion? Foolish men that think they can control women, they only tyrannize. Even those unfortunate ones who, do to circumstances or a manufactured torpidity, succumb to your … Read More

What Are Confused Sexual Ideals?

Confused Sexual IdealsConfused Sexual IdealsA great deal of confused sexual ideals and misunderstanding exists around relationships and what we want. This topic is meaningful to both joy … Read More

Consciously orgasmic at 71 – ongoing discovery

Conscious sexualityConscious sexualityI am seventy-one but I discovered my orgasm at twenty-five and enjoyed a great deal of orgasmic sex in … Read More

Help Build Burning Man Consent Culture

Donate to BedDonate to BedNow you can help BED (Bureau of Erotic Discourse) by contributing and sharing on social networks. Wear our buttons with pride! Help BED … Read More

Without holding back

Without holding back

Share the love while you can, without holding back. One day we will not be able to share it and then it’s too late. Use intelligence to make loving harmless.

How to compare loving non-monogamy versus codependent monogamy

loving non-monogamyloving non-monogamyThe desire to know and share what’s true, to share what’s best in life, to love wholly without restraint, to live intensely! These values did not arise … Read More

Bullshit hypnotic manipulation imposes sexual beliefs

hypnotic manipulationhypnotic manipulationMonogamy is a possessive ideology. It presumes to predict the future and often fails. Monogamy becomes a prison for affections and often kills the love that … Read More

Boldly Vulnerable Sexual Affection at Burning Man

Sexual AffectionSexual AffectionWe live in a highly sexual culture that also idolizes utility (i.e., a means to an end). We tend to value … Read More

Sexual Relationship Evolution

Some of us look upon sexual relationship evolution with a fear or envy. Most of our grandparents would look upon our sexual relations today with disapproval, yet they passed … Read More

Button Suggestions – Voting for 2017 BRC Burn

Bureau of Erotic DiscourseBureau of Erotic DiscourseThe Bureau of Erotic Discourse seeks new ideas for the coveted pins to give away at Burning Man … Read More

Dispute monogamy for 5 more reasons

dispute monogamy dispute monogamy I dispute monogamy and I hope that my monogamous brothers and sisters understand that it is not just the failures of monogamy that provoke … Read More

What we think about love, sex and art changes things

about loveabout loveIn the west the propaganda of religion is probably not as pervasive as are the songs, representations, and symbolism about love. We know how different religious … Read More

Changing our views of love

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Love like water.

Instead of saying we have different kinds of love, such as, one kind for friends, another for family, and another … Read More

Sex Education | Video with John Oliver

Sex EducationSex EducationOnce again the inimitable John Oliver exposes the weakness of American abstinance sex eduducation and with humor at the end, offers his own sex … Read More

One sexually daring woman degraded by custom

sexually daringsexually daringI want to respect the trial and error of a sexually daring woman who is now dead, and expose the all too common error for the sake … Read More

Removing Condoms Without Consent | Via Hufington Post

CondomCondom“Stealthing,” the fact that there is an online comunity encouraging such behavior suggests to me complisity in a crime. Stealthing is non-consensual sex and is potentially fatal.

A … Read More