How to question love ideals | By Todd Vickers at Vivriti.org

Love idealsLove idealsIntimate relationships and love ideals are a touchy topic anywhere, but the consequences of marriage, relationship breakups, and vengeance for rejection should make … Read More

4 reasons a sense of wonder is important in a beautiful life

WonderWonderWonder in a beautiful life | Todd Vickers via Vivriti.org

1. There can be no surprise without discovery.

Discovery is like a free fall; a new understanding … Read More

How to truthfully have intimate relationship | Todd Vickers via Vivriti.org

intimate relationshipintimate relationshipExcerpt: “…To be unaware of how we conceive intimate relationship leads to treating our questionable beliefs as fact. Let’s look at some problems and then … Read More

Sex Impact – Indian Youth Suicide | Published at Vivriti.org

Youth SuicideYouth SuicideYouth Suicide; more educated young people kill themselves in India, why? Todd Vickers looks at one part of the problem, the stifling of sexuality to conform with … Read More

Sex Power – Media Offering Vicarious Pleasure

sex powersex powerWhat is sex power? It’s no trivial fact that almost every human being you meet  longs for sexual joy, and those who understand that fact … Read More

Understanding Relationships Nurturing Love | Todd Vickers writes for Vivriti.org

Understanding RelationshipsUnderstanding RelationshipsUnderstanding relationships means understanding pain. This is vital if we wish to bring relief to useless suffering. To reduce useless pain is Read More

Slut Shaming Cultural Differences | Todd Vickers writing at Vivriti.org

slut shamingslut shamingAnyone involved in slut shaming does not want girls to have freedom, to wear whatever they want, to like whoever they like (including … Read More

Todd Vickers writing at Vivriti.org – Freedom – Women’s day

FreedomFreedom

What is Freedom

A donkey chooses to pursue a carrot dangled in front of its face and thereby pulls the … Read More

Love wants to live

Love wants to liveLove wants to liveWe want love. Many of us will say that it’s one of the most important things in our lives. Love wants to … Read More

Renouncing the limits of love | Todd Vickers on Vivriti.org

renouncing loves limitsrenouncing loves limitsWhy aren’t we renouncing loves limits? “Who do you know who does not place a boundary around his love? We are … Read More

Leaving dead relationships

Leaving dead relationshipsLeaving dead relationshipsLet’s start leaving dead relationships. Some people hold love hostage. Hiding behind a mask, they threaten to kill love if another doesn’t submit … Read More

Slut shaming on social networks

Since the January 21st Woman’s March, I’ve seen a lot of slut shaming on social networks.

Memes with scantily clad celebrities who might hold views on non sexual issues like the scientific consensus on climate change or the US accepting … Read More

Lovers in friendship vs. being a player

I use the phrase ‘friendly sex’ because the term ‘casual sex‘ is cliché, and leads to confusion. I suggest a lovers friendship in consenting pleasure is better when we … Read More

My ever changing sexuality

changing sexualitychanging sexualityMy ever changing sexuality really began as a teen, I grew my sexual legs in a free love community of spiritual seekers, my views of this ever changing sexuality are quite non-traditional. I know the world is … Read More

An allegory applied to relationships

Relationship allegoryRelationship allegoryImagination is risky when we fill in the unknown. Below is an ancient story I use as a relationship allegory that exposes the mistake of thinking we know … Read More

Christians cut off a young girls clit in USA

The reason to scrutinize religion is because religion can be terribly harmful. The example and it is not unique. The irrational fear that some religion … Read More

Bias in love

biased lovebiased loveIf we’ve felt great pain in past relationships, we probably have some strong beliefs or biased love based on those impressions. How can we go … Read More