Bullshit hypnotic manipulation imposes sexual beliefs

hypnotic manipulationhypnotic manipulationMonogamy is a possessive ideology. It presumes to predict the future and often fails. Monogamy becomes a prison for affections and often kills the love that … Read More

Dispute monogamy for 5 more reasons

dispute monogamy dispute monogamy I dispute monogamy and I hope that my monogamous brothers and sisters understand that it is not just the failures of monogamy that provoke … Read More

Sex Education | Video with John Oliver

Sex EducationSex EducationOnce again the inimitable John Oliver exposes the weakness of American abstinance sex eduducation and with humor at the end, offers his own sex … Read More

One sexually daring woman degraded by custom

sexually daringsexually daringI want to respect the trial and error of a sexually daring woman who is now dead, and expose the all too common error for the sake … Read More

Sex Power – Media Offering Vicarious Pleasure

sex powersex powerWhat is sex power? It’s no trivial fact that almost every human being you meet  longs for sexual joy, and those who understand that fact … Read More

Sex degraded by deceit

becoming-degradedbecoming-degradedThe cheating liar may or may not believe in monogamy, but they have the merit of seeing possibilities beyond monogamy. Their desire exists beyond … Read More

Reform socially NOT politically

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Politics and sex can exist apart but those interested in sex should heed the 2016 election results. Since we shouldn’t rely … Read More

Non monogamy, when prejudice hides envy

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If we deny opportunities to love because we can’t conceive living  beyond monogamy, we may, among other things, be suffering envy.

The idea that we cannot have … Read More

Sexual deprivation and deceitful seduction

instinctive-joy2instinctive-joy2How many of our sexual beliefs result from conforming to or rebelling against arbitrary, indirect and unrelated suggestions? Things like a belief or a product that our sexuality could easily exist without.

Let’s consider letting go … Read More

What Desires Are Politically Important?

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Bertrand Russell – Nobel Lecture

Your Royal Highness, Ladies and Gentlemen,

I have chosen this subject for my lecture tonight … Read More

A monogamous irony

one-on-oneone-on-oneWould you like to see some different views that challenge beliefs about sex? We’ve got articles, videos, slide shows and memes you can peruse, contemplate, share and comment about. Consider a four part series … Read More

Stop admiring hypocrites

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We risk losing some opportunities telling the truth. Regardless, the growth of a seed in a consciously sewn garden is not retarded by noxious weeds and briers overtaking the blossoms and … Read More

Facing facts, sex and climate change

Frog Viv adaptFrog Viv adaptWhat do sex and climate change have in common? Both involve facts we sometimes feel tempted to ignore or alter them to suit our existing ideas.

Here is an excerpt … Read More

Slut shaming – How men can stop it

EJ Slut ShameEJ Slut ShameAuthor Todd Vickers writes at Elephant Journal and looks critically at slut shaming.

The good things around sex often … Read More

Controlling crowds with sex

sex controlling crowdssex controlling crowdsThose with influence and interest will try to deny access to rainwater and then either sell it back to us or … Read More

Three reasons sex is confusing

sex is confusingsex is confusingSex doesn’t oppose truth. Delusion opposes truth. Delusion is different than having or not having sex.

  • People often withhold the truth and blankly lie about their sexuality. These faults blend with truths, some … Read More
  • Cheating and Honest Non-Monogamy

    pink vest2pink vest2I recently shared food with two women who both cheated on past lovers and felt pain about their conduct. Both now live candidly in non-monogamous circumstances and feel better for the change. I know non-monogamous men who feel the same way. These people … Read More

    Is Monogamy Over? A Reply

    TIMEcover girlsTIMEcover girlsThe headline ‘Is monogamy over?’ emblazoned TIME Magazine’s September 21, 2015 issue.

    Feeling skeptical, I bought it. Its brevity trifled with the subject.

    Biologist David Barash has suggested that monogamy conflicts with our biology. However, he also states … Read More

    5 Reasons to Question Monogamy at Elephant Journal

    Let’s Sketch of a ClasicSketch of a Clasiclook at both monogamy and commitment with fresh eyes and consider five reasons to question both cultural ideas.

    Let’s not oversimplify the deceit exemplified by Ashley Madison. Widespread cheating suggests sexual impulses exist beyond monogamy.

    Many arguments against freer sexuality provoke fear and even persecution exemplified in slut shaming, honor killings and LGBT harassment.

    The discovery … Read More