Cheating and Honest Non-Monogamy

pink vest2pink vest2I recently shared food with two women who both cheated on past lovers and felt pain about their conduct. Both now live candidly in non-monogamous circumstances and feel better for the change. I know non-monogamous men who feel the same way. These people made moral … Read More

Sex-Pats in Cambodia

JodiJodiAccording to my friend, George, the American proverb that “even blind pigs can find an occasional acorn” is understated in Cambodia. “The ‘Kingdom Of Wonder’ – as Cambodia is advertised by the tourism board – is a haven for sex-pats. Easy immigration policies let foreigners stay for extended periods. A phrase repeated around the capital is ‘The older and uglier you are, the … Read More

Forbidden Subjects

WEB Kabir Front CoverWEB Kabir Front CoverExcerpted from the introduction to The Relevance of Kabir. By Todd Vickers

Let us let go of taboos when encountering poems. A lyricist mixes metaphors … Read More

Couple Calls – By The Honest Courtesan

Eye2Eye2A couple call is different from a two-girl call in that the latter involves two professional women rather than one professional and … Read More

A Retired Prostitute Helped Me

Essay on Woody the prostituteEssay on Woody the prostituteIn my latest book, The Relevance of Kabir, I use a strong metaphor concerning prostitution to make a point about honesty and taboo subjects. … Read More

Marriage Industrial Complex

Pleasure is bad unless...Pleasure is bad unless...Authority insisted that relaxed sexual freedom must be illegitimate. They built a fence around a birthright with shame. Then through the custom, they sell you a constrained pleasure.

We appease the uncomfortable sexual limits of tradition through buying … Read More