How to compare loving non-monogamy versus codependent monogamy

loving non-monogamyloving non-monogamyThe desire to know and share what’s true, to share what’s best in life, to love wholly without restraint, to live intensely! These values did not arise … Read More

One sexually daring woman degraded by custom

sexually daringsexually daringI want to respect the trial and error of a sexually daring woman who is now dead, and expose the all too common error for the sake … Read More

Don’t blame sex

DisapointmentDisapointmentSex is an event like an eclipse. Beliefs about events confuse us because beliefs induce emotions and changes in our behavior. During an eclipse our terrified ancestors made loud noises … Read More

Marriage Industrial Complex

Pleasure is bad unless...Pleasure is bad unless...Authority insisted that relaxed sexual freedom must be illegitimate. They built a fence around a birthright with shame. Then through the custom, they sell you a constrained pleasure.

We appease the uncomfortable sexual limits of tradition … Read More