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Don’t blame sex

By Todd Vickers 2016/04/03 2016/04/21 image

Sex is an event like an eclipse. Beliefs about events confuse us because beliefs induce emotions and changes in our behavior. During an eclipse our terrified ancestors made loud noises to scare off a demon from eating the sun, that belief was superfluous with the eclipse. How many superfluous beliefs burden our sexuality that, like the eclipse, could … Read More

What is Sexual Excess?

By Todd Vickers 2015/04/02 2015/04/02 Books

Excerpt from The Relevance of Kabir

“The word excessive means something when talking of salt, sex or any experience. Even water will kill you if you drink too much. When we believe some experience or possession will do something it cannot, before we give up the belief, we are likely to see if more will accomplish the desired effect. Our … Read More