Unreasonable Respect For Old Relationship Beliefs

Why would I say there is unreasonable respect for old relationship beliefs?

At a party, a woman lamented that she had to divide all her assets twice in two divorces. She said the next time she gets married, the man will have more stuff than her. When three people asked why she would get married again, she replied in a circular way, “I’m just the marrying type.” And the conversation ended since there seemed no point. If someone answered the question, why do you … Read More

Understanding Relationships Nurturing Love | Todd Vickers writes for Vivriti.org

Understanding RelationshipsUnderstanding RelationshipsUnderstanding relationships means understanding pain. This is vital if we wish to bring relief to useless suffering. To reduce useless pain is Read More

Renouncing the limits of love | Todd Vickers on Vivriti.org

renouncing loves limitsrenouncing loves limitsWhy aren’t we renouncing loves limits? “Who do you know who does not place a boundary around his love? We are … Read More

Slut shaming – How men can stop it

EJ Slut ShameEJ Slut ShameAuthor Todd Vickers writes at Elephant Journal and looks critically at slut shaming.

The good things around sex often … Read More

5 Reasons to Question Monogamy at Elephant Journal

Let’s Sketch of a ClasicSketch of a Clasiclook at both monogamy and commitment with fresh eyes and consider five reasons to question both cultural ideas.

Let’s not oversimplify the deceit exemplified by Ashley Madison. Widespread cheating suggests sexual impulses exist beyond monogamy.

Many arguments against freer sexuality provoke fear and even persecution exemplified in slut shaming, honor killings and LGBT harassment.

The discovery … Read More

Read About Sexual Pitfalls at Elephant Journal

Thinking WomanThinking WomanTodd’s newest article is now live at Elephant Journal

How to Avoid 5 Sexual Pitfalls.

The goal here is to see flaws in our beliefs so we need not be punished by … Read More

The Relevance of Kabir – One Thousand Review Copies Free

The Relevance of KabirThe Relevance of KabirTodd Vickers published The Relevance of Kabir at Smashwords. This eBook will soon be available at your favorite stores like Amazon, Barns & Noble and more. If you would like a free review copy, go … Read More

We Believed Lies About Commitments

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What is commitment? If we say it is dedication to a cause or activity remember another  person is not an idea or something we do. When humans became domesticatedRead More

Sexual Generosity

Sexual Generosity goes beyond kindness and tolerance. Generosity seeks to improve the condition of others regardless of any return. Sexual generosity must include a far-reaching notion… that the joy of another is not a threat.

Three Lovers | Théodore Géricault | Public DomainThree Lovers | Théodore Géricault | Public DomainRead More