Changing our views of love

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Love like water.

Instead of saying we have different kinds of love, such as, one kind for friends, another for family, and another … Read More

Non attachment and love

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How can we say ‘yes’ to life and not be attached to the people, things, events and outcomes. Non attachment is a … Read More

5 Reasons to Question Monogamy at Elephant Journal

Let’s Sketch of a ClasicSketch of a Clasiclook at both monogamy and commitment with fresh eyes and consider five reasons to question both cultural ideas.

Let’s not oversimplify the deceit exemplified by Ashley Madison. Widespread cheating suggests sexual impulses exist beyond monogamy.

Many arguments against freer sexuality provoke fear and even persecution exemplified in slut shaming, honor killings and LGBT harassment.

The discovery … Read More

We Lose When We Withhold Love

NarcissusNarcissusWe distort our capacity to love others with reference to an imaginary future. We see ourselves in this story and believe we know what love will do for us. We use emotion to force others to do what they “should”; what we … Read More