We Believed Lies About Commitments

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What is commitment? If we say it is dedication to a cause or activity remember another  person is not an idea or something we do. When humans became domesticatedRead More

The Polyamorous Caravan – Part Two

Huguet_A-Caravan-Crossing-The-DesertHuguet_A-Caravan-Crossing-The-DesertMany non-traditional folks carry conclusions that seem to rest on bias left over from tradition. For example, in a recent piece, Louisa Leontiades discussed applying the lessons of open relationships to monogamous relationships. I agree with her about many things, … Read More

Can Casual Sex Be Loving? Yes, It Can.

Leveque BacchanaliaLeveque BacchanaliaI am not saying that all casual sex is loving any more than I would say the same about all marriages. Our society’s blind spots around sex are worse because we tend to trust customs and support … Read More