The kink community’s gift to culture lay in its preservation of sex or sexuality for its own sake instead of using it as a means to some other goal. *Herbert Marcuse, Eros and Civilization “Against a society which employs sexuality as a means for a useful end, the perversions uphold sexuality as an end in itself.” Pleasure for its own sake becomes a part of a life well lived. Pleasure and or experience is valuable even if it leads to nothing beyond that event itself…. Read More
A true story of sexual women in one retirement community and a sex positive reflection on the reality of desire. Our instinctive joys belong to life not to expectations and certainly not traditions. Excerpt from: The Paradox of Self Realization Read More
Mark had a hard time meeting women but he found his will and courage, dared to risk and a woman accepted his invitation. This is an alternate view for incels that bypasses manipulative pick up tactics and the Andrew Tate chauvinistic, tough guy shtick. Read More
Excerpt: “…To be unaware of how we conceive intimate relationship leads to treating our questionable beliefs as fact. Let’s look at some problems and then solutions. Don’t become cynical in intimate relationship. Find those people who value the truth. On one hand, the hope for something better drives human discovery; meaning trial and error. On the other, unrealistic expectations suck the life out of our love. We can’t ignore the valuable experience of the past. But if we mistake our beliefs as evidence about ourselves,… Read More
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