The Gift of Kink

The kink community’s gift to culture lay in its preservation of sex or sexuality for its own sake instead of using it as a means to some other goal. *Herbert Marcuse, Eros and Civilization “Against a society which employs sexuality as a means for a useful end, the perversions uphold sexuality as an end in itself.” Pleasure for its own sake becomes a part of a life well lived. Pleasure and or experience is valuable even if it leads to nothing beyond that event itself…. Read More

The Eros of Psyche

The Eros of Psyche

The eros of the psyche does NOT limit its power to assumed roles of dominant and submissive. It moves within an individual and also moves from one living being to another. It’s so vulnerable, it will be tempting to stop because unlike the physical body, the psyche has no physical limits. That’s how out of control it feels.
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