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Lovers in friendship vs. being a player

By Todd Vickers 2017/01/22 2018/02/01 relationships

I use the phrase ‘friendly sex’ because the term ‘casual sex‘ is cliché, and leads to confusion. I suggest a lovers friendship in consenting pleasure is better when we include higher … Read More

Don’t miss love

By Todd Vickers 2016/11/28 2017/05/27 Discovery

At the age of nine, the death of my beloved sister before she turned twenty taught me something about relationships and this lesson extends to sexual … Read More

Questionable Beliefs About Love

By Todd Vickers 2015/01/09 2015/01/09 Discovery

How many beliefs about love are worth their upkeep and defense? Many beliefs rest on circumstances that must change, after all, that is what circumstances do. When we seek particular ‘results’ we turn our lovers into a means to an … Read More