Cheating and Honest Non-Monogamy

pink vest2pink vest2I recently shared food with two women who both cheated on past lovers and felt pain about their conduct. Both now live candidly in non-monogamous circumstances and feel better for the change. I know non-monogamous men who feel the same way. These people made moral … Read More

She Lives in Secret

Secret Woman 2Secret Woman 2We can’t pick her out of a crowd, she who lives in secret. As the eyes of her teachers stabbed with disapproval, she learned to show what they would not condemn. And sometimes her sisters were as mean. She learned that … Read More

Is Monogamy Over? A Reply

TIMEcover girlsTIMEcover girlsThe headline ‘Is monogamy over?’ emblazoned TIME Magazine’s September 21, 2015 issue.

Feeling skeptical, I bought it. Its brevity trifled with the subject.

Biologist David Barash has suggested that monogamy conflicts with our biology. However, he also states that child … Read More

Sex-Pats in Cambodia

JodiJodiAccording to my friend, George, the American proverb that “even blind pigs can find an occasional acorn” is understated in Cambodia. “The ‘Kingdom Of Wonder’ – as Cambodia is advertised by the tourism board – is a haven for sex-pats. Easy immigration policies let foreigners stay for extended periods. A phrase repeated around the capital is ‘The older and uglier you are, the … Read More