Queer America: Now That Trump Will Be President

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“…we must hold each other as we piece ourselves back together, as we remember who we are ― who we have always been ― and … Read More

Don’t miss love

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At the age of nine, the death of my beloved sister before she turned twenty taught me something about relationships and this lesson extends to sexual … Read More

Abusing a lovers empathy

Abusing lovers empathyAbusing lovers empathyWe cannot be convicted of abusing a lovers empathy with our self-created misery but we can still be guilty. Our ability to feel what we think is one of our conceptual powers. The mind does not … Read More

Sex education in Norway

Norway Sex Education Norway Sex Education Enjoy the video below of Norway sex education. America on the whole, can’t deal directly with the facts of the sex as an issue. Such a … Read More

Sexual Kindness

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We will probably face fear or prejudice, including our own, when we dare to cross the frontiers of personal and social bias to explore sexual kindness. We hold dear, … Read More

Aspiration for a better life (and better sex)

better life better sexbetter life better sexOur desire, our aspiration for a better life is beautiful. It makes us bold and willing to risk and with risk comes both failure and discovery, both have their own value. We … Read More

Sex degraded by deceit

becoming-degradedbecoming-degradedThe cheating liar may or may not believe in monogamy, but they have the merit of seeing possibilities beyond monogamy. Their desire exists beyond the boundaries … Read More

Reform socially NOT politically

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Politics and sex can exist apart but those interested in sex should heed the 2016 election results. Since we shouldn’t rely on reforms … Read More

Non monogamy, when prejudice hides envy

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If we deny opportunities to love because we can’t conceive living  beyond monogamy, we may, among other things, be suffering envy.

The idea that we cannot have something tempts … Read More

Sex as part of a good life

big-beautybig-beautySex is not merely physical pleasure, there’s a wonder, like that of a child seeing a butterfly alight on their outstretched hand, or being barefoot in a creek, with mud in our toes, … Read More